Saturday, April 10, 2010

étiquette

I love how people today have no manners and lack of self respect.
I'm currently in one of the most, awkward, disgusting moments of my life. And all I can do is blast my music, IM my best friend, and hope that this will somehow get erased from my head.
But this really has me thinking, am I a prude or am I just surrounded by hussies?
I know I'm in no way an angel, I swear, I lie, I get easily angry, and I sometimes cross the line. But, when has being a slut become cool? At school I can no longer turn the corner without seeing boobs in my face, tights wore as pants and skin tight shirts. Thongs hanging out, and skirts so short you can see the bottom of their asses. Is this how people picture 14 year olds? But it's not just girls, it's also the boys, which is even worse. In society, a slut is a slut, but what are the boundaries for guys? This is where the old saying "boys will be boys" gets in the way. In class, I see boys underwear hanging out there pants, pretending to hump girls behind their backs, referring to girls in the most derogatory ways, but still calling them sluts. They talk about who they'd had sex with, and how good or bad it was. and keep in mind this is all in class, for everyone to hear.
It's like this new rule, you have to lose your virginity or you're not cool. There are 7th and 8th graders (12 and 13 year olds), sending nude pictures to seniors (18 year olds) Disgusting.
But, I think that are certain circumstances. I have a friend, and she had been going out with this boy since 7th grade, and she decided to lose her virginity to him the summer going into 9th grade. she ended up getting pregnant. The girls that had had sex with 4-5 different guys were calling her a slut because she was 15 and pregnant. She is now 37 weeks pregnant, and expecting a boy. Do these girls not realize that that will be them soon?
I'm in no way telling people to stay a virgin until marriage, because I know no will follow it, probably not even me. But, I think people need to realize that sex is a heavy thing, and it could ruin your life. But, on that note, the people who tell the girls that have sex that they're going to hell because of it are no better than them.
I'm sorry about the rant, I just needed to get that off my chest.
I'll try not to do one of these too much, because no one likes a bitch.

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